Sunday, May 2, 2010

上了大学才知道......

The highlighted of the sentence is the sentence that I had experienced them ... =)

01.上了大学才知道,两个天天在一起的人不一定是朋友,有可能什么都不是。
02.上了大学才知道,从来不要和别人争论什么,因为那是没有结果的,无论谁对谁错。
03.上了大学才知道,手机是有事的时候用的,并不是为了交流感情。
04.上了大学才知道,真心对一个人好不一定有回报,而你忽略的人往往有可能是最重视你的。
05.上了大学才知道,很多东西是可遇而不可求的,很多东西你只能拥有一次。
06.上了大学才知道,恋爱不一定是真心的,有可能是利益关系,有可能是攀比心理。
07.上了大学才知道,原来中学老师教的是那么好,那么负责任。
08.上了大学才知道,很多时候自己遇到不开心事,千万不要渴望别人同情,大多数人会采取冷漠回敬的。那样会更让人家看不起。
09.上了大学才知道,有很多东西是不属于你的,你使劲强求会遭天遣的。
10.上了大学才知道,生活是有很多不公平的,你一定要正视,相信实力和群众的眼睛。
11.上了大学才知道,人的性格可以差异到如此之大。
12.上了大学才知道,一个人要自己对自己好,因为真正关心你的人很少,有了事他们也不一定会在你身边。所以要自己照顾自己。
13.上了大学才知道,课程会在你不经意间,拉下很多,期末考试前不一定能补回来。
14.上了大学才知道,钱用的是那么快,用钱的地方是那么多。
15.上了大学才知道,从现在开始应该把握每一个你能把握的人,放弃你留不住的人,不要因为想留住个别人而失去一群人。
16.上了大学才知道,自己一定在乎自己的自尊,因为你的自尊在别人眼里根本不算什么。
17.上了大学才知道,不要心情不好的时候对周围人发脾气,渴望他们谅解你,人家不是你的父母,现在你可以明白父母对自己多么重要。
18.上了大学才知道。即便有人对情感看的无所谓,你一定要坚信,人之间的感情,有可能会令所有东西无法超越的,但记住,只是有可能。
19.上了大学才知道,会遇到许多自己看不惯的人或事,但那与你无关,别人爱咋整随他便,别生不该生的气,不值。
20.上了大学才知道,许多曾经的人会变的让你认不出,但请留住回忆。
21.上了大学才知道,会遇到很多诱惑,无论别人怎么样,你是你,你有你的原则和底限。
22.上了大学才知道,会有人很讨厌你或者和你过不去,但是他爱怎么样就怎么样,我们要大度,不和小人计较,但前提是你正确。
23.上了大学才知道,很多人无法理解男女之间的朋友关系,在一起就一定是恋人,不是恋人就一定不能在一起。
24.上了大学才知道,学习要刻苦,因为凭聪明就能应付大学科目的人是风毛翎角。
25.上了大学才知道,原来时间一空闲下来是那么无聊,丝毫没有中学的充实的感觉
26.上了大学才知道,太在乎别人了往往会伤害自己。
27.上了大学才知道,对自己好的人会随着时间的流逝越来越少。
28.上了大学才知道,可以不把所有人当朋友,但千万不能把一个人当敌人,至少可以当同学。
29.上了大学才知道,玩你能玩的起的,玩不起的千万别玩,不然会输的什么都没有的。
30.上了大学才知道,快乐常常来自回忆,而痛苦常常来自于回忆与现实的差距。
31.上了大学才知道,原来上课,吃饭,上自习常常得自己一个人。
32.上了大学才知道,有很多人的想法与做法你无法理解,或是根本不知道他在想什么,千万别在那揣摩或者瞎猜,那样会让自己累,既然人家要保持神秘感那就让人家保持去啊,自己又不是占星师。
33.上了大学才知道,每个人都是带有“地方特色”的。
34.上了大学才知道,别人请客吃饭或着自己请别人吃饭都是很平常的,甚至请一个不怎么熟的人都是有可能的
35.上了大学才知道,每个人都是认为自己的家乡最好,无论他的家乡贫穷或富裕

(Sorry for those who can't read Chinese... so I translated those to English by using "Google Translator" and edited some of them due to the lack of cability of the translator machine, if you know what I meant if you used it before, haha)

Chinese to English translation

Before reading it, I have to say sorry for my broken English XP ... its my second language and hard to edit them from the real meaning from the Chinese words anyway .

01. On the university, you will find that that even two people stick together everyday, they may not be friends, or it could be nothing at all.

02. In the university, you will find that never do and others are arguing about, because it is not the outcome, no matter who is right.

03. In the university,  you will find that the phone is only used when there is something(assignments, group works etc), not to exchange our feelings(usual friends talking etc).

04. In the university, you will find that you would not get any return even though you treat him/her nicely, and you might often neglect the people may be most important to you.

05. In the university, you will find that many things are met by chance, not hoping to get them, and many things you can have only use once (an opportunity etc).

06. In the university, you will find that love is not necessarily a true love, there might be just for interest(using you etc), comparisons may be psychological.

07. In the university, you will find that the secondary school teacher is better, and more responsible.

08. In the university, you will find that you often had an unhappy experience, and hoping to get sympathy from other people but they would sometime just ignore you. Therefore people look down upon you.

09. In the university, you will find that there are many things that do not belong to you, if you insist to get them, you will bear the consequences.

10. In the university, you will find that life is a lot of unfair, but you have to face it, believing your own strength and people's impression on you.

11. In the university, you will find that the human personality can be so much difference.

12. In the university, you will find that you have to take care of your own, because just a very few people really care about you, might be not available during the time you need them the most. So take care of yourself.

13. In the university, you will find that the course you will inadvertently, to pull you down a lot. You may not be able to make it before the final exam

14. In the university, you will find that you spend a lot on your money, and you will spend them on a LOT of things(books, stationary, references, etc).

15. In the university, you will find that you must appreciate and "grab" as much people you knew from now on, and not just because you wanted to retain an individual and you lost group of people.

16. In the university, you will find that that you must care about your self-esteem, because your self-esteem in the eyes of others... it is just nothing to them.

17. In the university, you will find that when you are not in a good mood you disturb and annoy others just to hope them to care about you... but they are not your parents, you can now understand how important are your parents.

18. In the university, you will find that even some of the emotion to see does not matter, you must firmly believe that the feelings between people, it may be that all things can not be surpassed, but remember, just might.

19. In the university , you will find that you will get annoy with the ways of other people doing it, but that has nothing to do with you, and its not worth for you to get angry just because of it.

20. In the university, you will find that that many people might influence you and therefore those who knew you might not recognize(do not accept) you, but please remember who you are.

21. In the university, you will find that you will encounter many temptations, no matter how others like, ... re keep in mind that You are You, and you have your own principles and abilities.

22. In the university, you will find that someone might come across and hate you, but let him/her, that we have to be humble, and ignore them.

23. In the university, you will find that that many people can not understand the relationship between men and women friends, together, they must be lovers, not lovers will certainly not be together.

24. In the university, you will find you must struggle, because with smart people who can handle college courses are competitive. ( I had no idea how to translate it =X )

25. In the university, you will find that it would be VERY dull and boring when there's a free time, and feels that not as plentiful as during your secondary school activities.

26. In the university, you will find that you often hurt yourselves when you care other people too much.

27. In the university, you will find that less and less people do not treat well to themselves as the time passed by...

28. In the university, you will find that everyone may not be a friend, but never take a person as an enemy, at least when treat them as your classmates/coursemates.

29. In the university, you will find that you only "play" the game that you can afford to play,  otherwise, do not play it, or you will lose every thing.

30. In the university, you will find that happiness often come from memories, and painful memories and reality often comes from the gap.

31. In the university, you will find that you are having your class, your breakfast/lunch/dinner alone...

32. In the university, you will find that there are many ideas and practices of people you can not understand or do not know what he was thinking about, do not try to figure it out or guessing it, because that would only make you  tired, since people want to maintain a sense of mystery just let them, you are not an astrologer any how.

33. In the university, you will find that everyone has their "local characteristics".

34. On the university, you will find that it is common that they treat each other a meal, it is even possible to a stranger as well !

35. On the university, you will find that everyone is considered the best in their home/country, whether poor or rich.

I got this via friends from Facebook, and these sentences really somehow reflected ... or  saying out exactly what are my heart is thinking about for the whole time... till now - - - - - is it like...


(Ouch~*)
PS: Not that I'm a relationship with someone else !
Check my relationship status in my Facebutt Facebook !!

I'm really dislike my life right now... maybe due to different cultural experience and races? I really felt kinda lonely around here, not so fun as before during secondary school with all my funny, cute, hilarious, ridiculous and any sort of personalities friends you had! I think you might know what I'm talking since I believe you experienced it as well la ~

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